Interruptions

To my daughters, who see me relating to them as making things about me...

This criticism a few years ago caused me hesitancy, to walk on egg shells. It has never been about me. This is a part of a conversation. The above person feels guilty about sharing during conversation. I did for a while too. I am self critical. 

Then I remembered that I am accepted and expected to share among others in my life unlike late adolescent daughters are. I am so grateful for friends. I always heard each of them and supported them even if there was nothing I could do about what was bothering them. I also guided when necessary. 

The funny thing is that I have watched them do this too in conversation. Maybe maturity will change their harsh views. Who knows. I am not around to witness that. 

#estrangement